Because i want to spend more time with you

Bila anak-anak dah pandai bercakap, semua benda atau perkara yg berlaku kat rumah akan keluar dari mulut mereka secara spontan. Its happen to me 😄
Aryan cerita kat Ummi (a.k.a babysitter) pasal dia ikut mummy daddy soping barang dapur. The conversation is like this (im sure coz Ummi did text me after the conversation 😁😆):
Aryan: aryan jalan dgn mummy daddy. Beli barang.
Ummi: mummy beli apa?
Aryan: mummy beli mango byk. Mummy bli pisang. Carrot.
Ummi: itu je?? Mummy tak beli ayam, ikan?
Aryan: takde ummi. Mummy bli mango je.
Ummi: aik.. habis tu aryan makan apa? Mummy tak masak?
Aryan: mummy tak masak. Aryan makan nasi kat rumah Ummi.
Ummi: 😄😃
.. nampak buruk je mummy jadinya. Hahah. My little hero yg penuh drama..
To aryan, bukan mummy taknak masak. Memasak perlukan masa. Sepatutnya sekejap tapi still mummy kena beri perhatian dan feedback bila aryan alisha bercakap dan tanya macam2. Oleh itu, atas keizinan Daddy Aryan, weekdays tak payah masak. Dan tujuan keputusan itu di buat...
BECAUSE I WANT TO SPEND MORE TIME WITH YOU.. 😍😍
Kepada ibu2 d luar sana yg bekerja, balik rumah sediakan makanan pastu urus hal sekolah anak2, saya respect kalian 😊

New Resolution for me

My last post was a year ago. Im expecting myself to better than what i am now. Searching for new passion..new resolution that will help me grow better as a muslim.. a wife..a mother.. a daughter.. a geologist..

I will share about it later 😄

Bila rumah hampir dimasuki pencuri

23 Oct 2013.. Sekitar pukul 4.30am ke 6.00am. Bangun tuk susukan Alisha. Sambil mata duk terlelap dan kepala tersengguk2.kedengaran bunyi pintu di tolak. Dum..dum..dum..dlm pada itu hujan sedang trun diikuti oleh tiupan angin.sangka ku itu bunyi pintu d tiup angin. Ku biarkan saja bunyi pintu itu.selang 15-20minit,Aryan bangun minta susu. Ku suruh sabar. Konpem la ank bujang aku takkan diam kn.trus saja dia menjerit "mummyyy!! Nen..nen..nen.." ku letakkn alisha dan terus memeluk aryan.saat itu tdk kedengaran lagi bunyi pintu.mgkn hujan sdh berenti. Ku susukn Aryan.langsung aku pun ikut lena. Pukul 7am,bangun dan terus ke blik air tuk mandi.keluar dr blik air,ku lihat suami yg hanya memakai boxer sedang bersila d ruang tamu langsung dia berkata dgn nada serius "ada pencuri cuba pecah masuk rumah.subuh tadi.gril dah terbuka". Dan aku tergamam. Katanya jiran sebelah ketuk pintu tanya kalau2 mlm td kitorg mmg x kunci pintu ke.rupanya,gril jiran sebelah tu pun dah d kopak pencuri.. Huhuhu.. Risau tak terhingga!! Rupanya bunyi yg ku dgr itu adlh cubaan pencuri yg cuba tuk pecahkn pintu. Dan rasanya pencuri tu x teruskn niatnya sbb dgr suara aryan menjerit. Hikmah anak menyusu badan. Kepada pencuri tersebut...laki aku tanya apa kriteria yg ko lihat bila nk pecah masuk rmh org. Ku menyewa kt flat kot.effortnya la ko wahai pencuri..sanggup naik tangga smpi tingkat 3.subhanallah.. Kitorg nmpk mcm kaya ke? Rumah i takde sofa pun.kitorg still tgk TV kotak kot... Itulah persoalan dr suami ku.isk..isk.. Tak pasal2 kitorg kena tukar pintu ye.solid wood pulak tu.rumah sewa je pon.rumah yg aku bli (tgh renovate) pun x guna pintu solid wood.. Sekian.

Now, im a mother of 2 child

long time i leave my blog without any update... very busy with work, my son, hubby and housework. too busy with life. not even realize that i was pregnant of my second child. only realized about it after Raya 2012 in August. during that time my pregnancy is about 24weeks. im in SHOCK!!! but hubby said its REZEKI  from Allah SWT. accepted with no regrets. i delivered the lil princess at PrinceCourt MC.same day like her brother which is on Wednesday. 9th Jan 2013 at 1.25pm exactly after Zuhur azan. She only got her name after 9days. Introducing my princess Alisha Qaisara

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what u do when ur lil one is sulking?

it was a lovely motherhood journey. there is time where i came home late and it give big impact to my lil Aryan feeding schedule. its only about 30minutes late than always. his looking at me without smile. then crying. i want to breastfeed him coz i know he's hungry.

And guess what he do?? he push my breast away but still want me to hug him.his hungry but dont want to breastfeed. i try again,still he push my body. im so down and sad... but i keep think positive.just believe that Allah s.w.t will help. alhamdulillah.... after 1week aryan know where to find his milk when i hug him.

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5months being a mother

halloooo people..and hi to my own page.

its being a long time since my last post on february 2012. now i back to the office and totally dont hv free time to write. or is it because i dont manage my time well??

my lil Aryan is going to be 5months old tomorrow 7May at 12.36pm :-)

currently he being busy to start crawling,more baby talk, putting things into his mouth. by 6months,he can start eat solid foods.

Now mommy need to survey type of solid food for Aryan. Since i cannot sleep,lets do the surveying :-P hihi...

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Welcome to The World Shah Aryan Rizqin

I delivered a baby boy on 7th Dec 2011, Wednesday, 12:36 pm at Prince Court Medical Centre,KL. Admit to hospital on Tuesday at 9.30pm, my gynae said servic already open about 1.5cm but yet, i dont feel any pain or contraction for laboring.. They put the induce "tablet" and let me rest for that night.

Next morning, wake up n cleaning myself. Direct go to the labor room with my lovely hubby. Gynae came n check. Only open to 3cm. They put the machine for monitoring the contraction and baby heartbeat. Guess what??? the contraction level is high (above 100), yet i still dont feel any pain. they put a drip (tak tau apa nk pgl, nurse sebut drip je..hehe) into me trough my left hand..it will increase the contraction level to fasten the opening of servic. And the consequence is..... i will feel the pain which is much more pain then the 'falls alarm'..

oh YESSSSSS... it so painful.. the pain start at 8.30am and i only can hold it until 10.30am when i ask my husband to look under the blanket..and he said, "darah.....mcm mna ni.." hehe.. i asked him to call the nurse.. and they said the opening already 7cm..

Its time to push the baby.....

gynae came and the baby is out.. its only take me about 4hours to stay in the labor room.and without using any painkiller.gynae and nurse keep sying that im a strong woman..WOWW!! .. im Proud of myself... and my hubby who really helpful during the labor session..love u dear..

kat bawah ni picture baby sya.. hihihihi.. Welcome to the World Shah Aryan Rizqin............ *("-")*

*just came out from the womb*

*daddy take picture of you baby*

*its your daddy my lil prince*

*here you are at 4 days of life*

Petua tuk cepat Bersalin...

Masa mula-mula tahu pregnant dulu, doctor kata my EDD(expected due date) 12 Dec 2011. Tarikh tu ditentukn berdasarkan tarikh terakhir period. Setelah masuk bulan ke-7 pregnant, doctor inform yang baby saya cepat matured. possibility tuk beranak awal 2 minggu adalah tinggi.....

Dan sekarang ni, saya da start sakit2.. Tak sabar nak tunggu baby keluar :)

Macam-macam petua orang bagi kat saya supaya cepat beranak dan memudahkan proses bersalin nnt. Antara yang saya amalkan sepanjang tempoh mengandung ni:

1. banyakkan membaca Surah Yusuf (untuk anak yg comel dan cantik), Surah Maryam (mudah tuk melahirkan dan mendapat anak yg soleh) dan Surah Yasin (untuk menjaga akidah dan semoga anak mendapat hidayah).

2. Bacakan surah Al-Fatihah, 3 Qul dan ayat Kursi kepada kendungan setiap malam sebelum tidur (mohon dilindungi dari anasir2 jahat dan mendapat anak yg baik).

3. banyakkan berjalan bagi memudahkan kelahiran bayi. Tapi jangan sampai memudaratkan diri dan kandungan.

4. Squatting. Exercise ni bagus tuk membuka laluan bagi bayi tuk keluar (bukaan pelvic). Kegel exercise juga boleh dilakukan semasa squatting. Kegel exercise membantu dalam merangsang dan menguatkan otot di kawasan vagina.

5. Cara gambar di bawah saya lakukan bila sakit belakang/backpain. Sangat membantu. Lepas buat terus rasa lega :)

6. Gambar kat bawah tunjukkan beberapa jenis exercise yg membantu dalam memberikan kedudukan yg betul tuk bayi dalam kandungan. saya buat semua itu..hehe...
7. Turun naik tangga juga salah satu exercise yg saya lakukan (sebab duduk kat flat takde lif, haruslah naik tangga kn). ini membantu dalam merangsang badan tuk mendapatkan oksigen. Masa turun naik tangga ni, boleh buat breathing exercise jugak.

8. Breathing exercise. Ini penting tuk mengelakkan ibu2 dari perasaan cemas yg boleh menyebabkn kita kehilangan tenaga semasa sakit nak bersalin. Mak saya yang ajar ni.. (Tarik nafas dalam2, lepaskan dari mulut slow2.. buat beberapa kali..klu boleh selalu2 la buat exercise ni.. its help during the Braxton Hicks and contraction. sya da buat..hehe)

Itu jer yg saya buat smpi skrg ni..pasal petua2 makan, mak n abah tak bg sangat ikut sbb lain badan lain effectnye...

Ok..saya nak exercise dulu...Tak sabar nak bagi baby keluar... :) All the best to me.

Permudahkan lah kelahiran anakku Ya Allah!! Amin....

Self reward before my baby out..

yEahhhhhh!!! got new gadget for myself..hihihi. This will help my day during "berpantang" at Melaka. kenapa saya beli Samsung Galaxy Note? Sebab:

1. supaya sya boleh Skype dgn daddy-to-be a.k.a hubby setiap mlm tym pantang nnt. so, dpt la daddy tgk perkembangan baby tiap2 hari.

2. hubby ckap sya kan suka buat scrapbook, so gadget ni ada mcm2 function yg blh bantu sya tuk hasilkn scrapbook yg cantik..wweeeeee!!

3. saya suka menulis.. planning mcm2..hehe..cuma tym pregnant ni susah la planning sbb semakin berat badan ini :)

4. walaupun saiznya besar, tapi saya suka..org kata, da suka tu, beli je la..nnt melepas pulak..

5. mungkin baby yg mengidam nk gadget ni (ade aje alasan kannnnn...hahahha)

I love talking with my Baby (still in my womb)

"Assalammualaikum baby syg..baby mummy sihat hr ni? kita pergi opis ye hr ni syg..kita siapkan kerja2 mummy,pastu kita rehat ye syg.. anak mummy anak yg baik, anak soleh, dan dgr kata mummy n daddy kan syg.."

itu la ayat yg kluar dari mulut i setiap kali bgn dr tidur..hehe.. i love to talk with my baby wlupun dia still dlm rahim.. its good to talk using good words with your baby. Baby can hear sound since 16 weeks of pregnancy. and the best thing is, when u always talk to them, they can recognize Mom's voice from womb..and they still remember the voice after been delivered. Isn't that amazing?? Masya-Allah..betapa besarnya kuasa Mu, Ya Allah..

Kadang2 tu, bkn setakat kat rumah jer i berbicara dgn baby. kat opis, bila baby kicking in my womb, i nasihat baby, "syg anak mummy, skejap lg kita makan ye syg. mummy siapkn sikit je lg kerja.. anak mummy anak yg baik kn..". and...baby mummy mmg dgr ckp. i selalu remind baby tuk kluar pada 1hb Dis. Insya-Allah baby mummy dgr ckp kan syg. Incredible how a little "thing" in woman womb can hear and respond to us. Its the amazing thing that happen to woman and nobody can change it (except Allah S.W.T).

Itulah kelebihan kaum Hawa, dijadikan untuk mendapat kasih syg dan dilindungi oleh kaum Adam demi melahirkan zuriat untuk mereka. Thank you husband for loving and taking care of me during this pregnancy. Hopefully, another 2-3 days we will meet our baby.. Insya-Allah :)

Suprise baby shower from Frenz..

Its a surprise "Baby Shower Lunchie" from beloved frenz.. seriously surprise okies!! Naseb baik i tak MC or cuti hari tu. ingatkan ada colorful balloon sbb meja kitorang special..

hahaha... Terbaik la kawan2 i ni.. Love u'olls darling :) mereka2 ni juga sediakan crown "bulu2". Terasa dihargai, i pun pakai la that Pinky Crown sepanjang lunch tym tu.. sbg tanda terima kasih tuk suprise baby shower :)

Our table at Delicious cafe, Dua residency.

Dua pengapit bersama Mommy-to-be ;)

Mommy changes.....

Hallooooo Malaysia!!!

Orang kata, bila mengandung, kita kena makan untuk 2 orang...

But, it should not be like that. The mother's body supplies the fetus with oxygen, nutrients, and antibodies, removes the fetus's carbon dioxide and other metabolic waste materials, and helps regulate fetal growth and physiology by circulating hormones. The fetus produces hormones that help bring about changes in the mother's body to maintain the pregnancy. So, what a mother should do is to take healthy food and exercise to maintain the oxygen supply to her body and baby... Why is that?? Bcoz if mother is overweight, kesan dr itu tdk dilihat pada si ibu, tetapi memberi kesan yg buruk pada bayi. Kesan itu tdk dapat dilihat secara terus slps bayi lahir, tapi di kesan sepanjang proses tumbesaran bayi. Lets see the changes of my body during this pregnancy...

*My body after 1 month of marriage life*

*at 2 months of pregnancy*

*at 3 months of pregnancy.. enjoying karaoke session with Jiah*

*4 months of pregnancy... with Linda at friend wedding. Can you see the baby bump?*

*5 & half month.... breaking fast with family in KK*

*6 months.. Aidilfitri 2011.. the baby bump is getting big*

*7 & half month.. and i still active.. wwweeeee :) *

*8 months pregnancy & i still join Teefa to be the bridesmaid*

*i dont mind if im big.. i still want to be the bridesmaid of my Bestfren Linda*

*my baby bump is same size with hubby 1 pack.. hahha..emm.. i think my is much more bigger*

*8 & half months.. with Cik Sara n Puan Zatil at Zarith wedding*

do i look nice during the changes?? i try my best to keep myself as nice as before im pregnant.. That's important.. Please friend, jgn ikut perasaan mals.. kerana, jika tym pregnant pun malas, dlm pantang nnt, pasti akn bertambah malas, dan bertambah2 lg malas itu... wlupun pregnant, kita kena jaga diri untuk suami. Berhias dan mencantikkan diri demi suami.. (^_^)

Tuhan lebih menyayangimu Nenek....

Ina Lillah Wa Ina Ilaihi Rajioun.....

Surah Yassin ku sedekahkan kepada arwah Nenek yang meninggalkan kami pada Selasa, 2hb Nov 2011 pada pukul 5.30ptg di Kg. Jawa, Tawau, Sabah. Jenazah telah dikebumikan di Tanah Perkuburan Welis, Tawau sebelum waktu Zohor tengah hari tadi.

Maafkan kami adik beradik nek sebab tak sempat bertemu mu sebelum kau diambil oleh Ilahi.. maafkan cucumu ini kerana tak dapat balik menemui mu di saat ajal menjemputmu.. Keadaan ku yg sarat mengandung ini tdk mengizinkn ku tuk menemuimu... Alangkah terkilannya...

Di saat ku tahu nenek sakit, sebak dadaku.. ku berharap tuk membawa anak ku yg bakal lahir nanti menemuimu.. tapi apakan daya Tuhan terlebih dahulu menjemput mu ke sisiNya sebelum kelahiran anakku ini..

Di saat ku tahu nenek sakit, ku memohon pada Ilahi agar dipermudahkan permergianmu sekiranya telah sampai waktu untuk mu meninggalkan kami.. ku pinta pada Ilahi agar di kurangkan kesakitan yg ditanggungmu, kepedihan hatimu selama ini...

Permergianmu meninggalkan sejuta memori kepada ku.. Semoga arwah ditempatkan di kalangan org2 yang beriman..

A-Fatihah.....

All the pictures from baby 3D Scan (^_^)

My 1st check-up was on 21/05/2011 at Prince Court Medical Centre. Me & hubby decided to choose Dato' Dr. Aziz as our Gynecologist. For us, it doesn't matter if the gynecology is man or woman, as long as he can give the best consultation during our pregnancy. The good thing is, Dr. Aziz was a good man and he thread us like his daughter & son.

*the head is developed at 9weeks pregnancy*

*we can hear your heartbeat my baby*

My "morning sickness" started just after our 1st check-up... UUrrgghhhh.. It was terrible. I lose my appetite, mood swing, headache, and backache. During our 2nd check-up on 22/06/2011, i told everything to Dr.Aziz, and he said that was normal for me to get backache since my body is creating a suitable place/space (the womb) for my baby. About morning sickness, there's nothing much he can do. Since I only gain 300g since the 1st check-up, he want me to push myself to eat so the baby can grows and i have enough energy to continue my day.

*Neck, spine and leg of my baby*

*normal and healthy heartbeat of my baby*

Its already 5months. The baby is getting bigger. And i can confirm thats my baby is actively kicking in my womb. I can feel it since 4months pregnant, but now the kicking is much more harder. During 3rd check-up, the fetus is complete. while scanning, it moves up side down and hard for the doctor to capture its picture. This active movement showed that my baby is healthy

*as you continue growing in my womb*

*your spine is getting longer*

At 6months of pregnancy, no morning sickness at all. but still i had headache. I also fasting during Ramadhan (still kena ganti pose gak tuk 4 hari yg pecah..tak tahan uuuu). At this time, me n hubby decide not to know the fetus sex. Why?? bcoz we want to surprise ourselves. We asked the gynae to make sure that the baby is perfect to deliver and healthy...

*my baby hands..Maha Suci Allah*

*its your head size during 6months baby*

After came back from Sabah (for hari Raya), we directly go to our next check-up. Guess what??? the gynae said my baby size is near to 8months size. He said that most probably i will deliver on end Nov 2011. AArrgghhhh!! I totally speechless.. (from EDD 13/12 -----to----> end Nov). But i also excited to meet u my baby.. ;)

*head size showing that the baby age is 32weeks already*

*tak sabar nk pegang peha anak mommy ni*

this is the changes of the baby in my womb... Later i will show the changes of my body shape/size during pregnancy..... :)

April until October 2011.....what actually happen to Me

My last post was on April 2011....

Its not that i don't have time to write or busy with work... Something happen in my life..

In my body... I became lazy, mood swing, tired, sleepy... And the worst is "nausea"...

Guess what???

IM PREGNANT

and now, i already get back my "mood" at 8 months pregnancy

i also cant believe this....

3-4 time used the pregnancy test (after married), and it only shows 1 line.. but when all the symptoms is there, all the signs:

1. Missed periods.

2. Frequent urination (where i considered i get vagina problem).

3. Tiredness/ Laziness (arrived home after works and go to sleep,

didn't talk to my husband and etc).

4. Backache/ headache.

5. Swollen breasts (i even though that i have lump in my breast

and meet specialist for a breast cancer test).

6. Darkening of areolas (i though my skin is getting darker!!!)

Until my husband ask, "Whats wrong with you syg?? u getting lazy.. u don even clean the house.. u r not like this before.. is something happen?".... Till i heard that, then i start thinking..

I go to Watson and buy pregnancy test.. Do the test at home...

And that's it... where me n hubby found myself is pregnant on 19th April 2011..

The next day, i go to clinic to confirm about it.. YESSS!! Confirmed that i was pregnant and its already 7 weeks.. during that time my mom n dad was in Makkah for Umrah..

Both me n hubby decide to not tell anyone about it until 4 months of pregnancy... hehe

And we did... so all this time, i just follow my heart, all the laziness, mood swing.... until i recover from all the symptoms:

1. Altered sense of TASTE (don't have appetite).

2. Morning sickness (until 6 months of pregnancy...eeerrkkkk).

3. Headaches (continues until now... will get MC once a week.. and im tired of MC)

4. Backaches (start from early pregnancy then getting less when going to 2nd trimester,

but the doctor said it will come again during the 3rd trimester..yes it is..).

That's my story for now... will write again later.. Adiossss!!!!

I want to make LOVE last forever

I want to make Love last forever.. how to do that??
This is a tips that i read from Weekly's Women magazine, March 2011 issues:

1. the quotes of "happily ever after" is simply a myth. Bear in mind that we need to continue working on our marriage..
2. Communicate. Do "couple talk time" about 1 hour per week, think of it as a quality time that you spend with partner in improving your communication skills and to understand each other better.
3. Men, they always talk straight to the point. So, as a woman, when men talk, accept it and reply him nicely with soft voice :)
4. We better talk to them direct rather than give "hint".. Why?? because they are men. they talk direct, so let us do the same. Just tell them directly what we want...
   
5. Communication is a key between couples. especially for younger generation like us. Always talk, listen and LOVE!!!

I totally agree with the above statement. We, younger generation is totally different from our parents. We are not looking for money from our partner. Because if its all about money, you still can have it without marrying to anyone. If its about lifestlye/position, we still can get it by ourselves. What we wants from the partner is trust, the one who will stay next to you whenever you need hims/her. The one who will told you dont when you want to do something that can hurt you, while others just let you do anything you wants coz there dont care about you. The one who will love you no matter how fat, old and ugly you will be after delivered a child.... Thats what we want :)

For that, I wish Happy 4th Anniversary of LOVE relation(18/4/2007 - 18/4/2011) to My Lovely Hubby, Mr Rizzam for being such understanding husband, always motivate me in everything i do especially in my career, and never bored giving advise for me to be a better daughter, sister and wife...

Thank you and I Love You my Hubby!!!

My Wedding Reception on 11 & 26 Dec 2010

As the first wedding reception were done on 11th Dec 2010, the theme is Sky Blue.. Blue dress was my dream dress with mermaid cuttings that fit my body very well. Thanks to Rosly(Butik Balqis) that advised me about the cuttings that made me look taller than my real height.. we, people especially women, always dream the best for our wedding. But, not everything's will be perfect as what we had in our brain. The reception is going well.. but the things that make me sad is i dont have any reception picture of my siblings. They were so busy helping my parents to prepare and handle all the things including food, people, wedding cakes etc.. With Love, i would like to thanks the 6 of my sister and brother for their help during My Wedding Day.. Love You All So Much!!! Let see what pict that i hv during the reception:

..put on make-up..

..The rings inside the red roses..

..the blue heels..

..boys suits and flower girl dress..

..tasty foods for the guests..

...touch up for flower girl..

..do i look like a blue mermaid??..

..this flower girl steal all the attention from the bride.haha..she's so cute..

..the lovely bouquet from Linda & Teefa..

..The Great 5..

..some of the friends who come early..

..oh mannn.he puts the food into my mouth without looking at me..

..the best buddies is here!!!..

..where are we going??..

..they so excited to get that flower :) ..

..my sweet buddies is here also..

..they still come to my wedding after attended another wedding at Perak.The lovely couple..

..his the guy..

..as he come to give me the lovely flower..

..he just show me something and i dont know waht i saw..

..smile with happy heart..

..as we promise to live together..

..the dress really showed my body curve :) ..

..photo session at Rumah Bendahara Melaka..

..fall in love with beautiful flower..

..all my love..

Its than followed by next reception in Sabah, the lovely Borneo Island. It was done in Beverly Hotel, KK. As my mum in law choose purple as family theme, we, the bride and groom wears white dress and black tuxedo. There are 30 family members of mine coming to the reception. 20's are from Melaka. View the picture and you will know the story during the reception:

..the white dress..

..the groom & the bride..

..here we come with the limo. and the bears in front of us..

..we are hungry and its time to have our lunch..

..we are waiting for the foods..

..change clothes after having lunch..

..photo session inside the room..

..as we do the "Magunatip Dance..

..my super buddies since high school (SMK Kuhara)..

..sumazau is Sabah cultural dance..

..while we dance, suddenly he picks me up.well, if he dont, the people around us will not let us pass them..hehe..

..please dont take him.hahha!!..

..my dad & mom with my uncle and cousin..

..my family in law..

..they were late because of the delayed flight.poor them..

And the most buddy that i would like to thank is My brother, Hasnolhayat for giving his best in helping me during my wedding.. I owe you my lovely brother. Will help you when your times come.... :)