I want to make LOVE last forever

I want to make Love last forever.. how to do that??
This is a tips that i read from Weekly's Women magazine, March 2011 issues:

1. the quotes of "happily ever after" is simply a myth. Bear in mind that we need to continue working on our marriage..
2. Communicate. Do "couple talk time" about 1 hour per week, think of it as a quality time that you spend with partner in improving your communication skills and to understand each other better.
3. Men, they always talk straight to the point. So, as a woman, when men talk, accept it and reply him nicely with soft voice :)
4. We better talk to them direct rather than give "hint".. Why?? because they are men. they talk direct, so let us do the same. Just tell them directly what we want...
   
5. Communication is a key between couples. especially for younger generation like us. Always talk, listen and LOVE!!!

I totally agree with the above statement. We, younger generation is totally different from our parents. We are not looking for money from our partner. Because if its all about money, you still can have it without marrying to anyone. If its about lifestlye/position, we still can get it by ourselves. What we wants from the partner is trust, the one who will stay next to you whenever you need hims/her. The one who will told you dont when you want to do something that can hurt you, while others just let you do anything you wants coz there dont care about you. The one who will love you no matter how fat, old and ugly you will be after delivered a child.... Thats what we want :)

For that, I wish Happy 4th Anniversary of LOVE relation(18/4/2007 - 18/4/2011) to My Lovely Hubby, Mr Rizzam for being such understanding husband, always motivate me in everything i do especially in my career, and never bored giving advise for me to be a better daughter, sister and wife...

Thank you and I Love You my Hubby!!!

My Wedding Reception on 11 & 26 Dec 2010

As the first wedding reception were done on 11th Dec 2010, the theme is Sky Blue.. Blue dress was my dream dress with mermaid cuttings that fit my body very well. Thanks to Rosly(Butik Balqis) that advised me about the cuttings that made me look taller than my real height.. we, people especially women, always dream the best for our wedding. But, not everything's will be perfect as what we had in our brain. The reception is going well.. but the things that make me sad is i dont have any reception picture of my siblings. They were so busy helping my parents to prepare and handle all the things including food, people, wedding cakes etc.. With Love, i would like to thanks the 6 of my sister and brother for their help during My Wedding Day.. Love You All So Much!!! Let see what pict that i hv during the reception:

..put on make-up..

..The rings inside the red roses..

..the blue heels..

..boys suits and flower girl dress..

..tasty foods for the guests..

...touch up for flower girl..

..do i look like a blue mermaid??..

..this flower girl steal all the attention from the bride.haha..she's so cute..

..the lovely bouquet from Linda & Teefa..

..The Great 5..

..some of the friends who come early..

..oh mannn.he puts the food into my mouth without looking at me..

..the best buddies is here!!!..

..where are we going??..

..they so excited to get that flower :) ..

..my sweet buddies is here also..

..they still come to my wedding after attended another wedding at Perak.The lovely couple..

..his the guy..

..as he come to give me the lovely flower..

..he just show me something and i dont know waht i saw..

..smile with happy heart..

..as we promise to live together..

..the dress really showed my body curve :) ..

..photo session at Rumah Bendahara Melaka..

..fall in love with beautiful flower..

..all my love..

Its than followed by next reception in Sabah, the lovely Borneo Island. It was done in Beverly Hotel, KK. As my mum in law choose purple as family theme, we, the bride and groom wears white dress and black tuxedo. There are 30 family members of mine coming to the reception. 20's are from Melaka. View the picture and you will know the story during the reception:

..the white dress..

..the groom & the bride..

..here we come with the limo. and the bears in front of us..

..we are hungry and its time to have our lunch..

..we are waiting for the foods..

..change clothes after having lunch..

..photo session inside the room..

..as we do the "Magunatip Dance..

..my super buddies since high school (SMK Kuhara)..

..sumazau is Sabah cultural dance..

..while we dance, suddenly he picks me up.well, if he dont, the people around us will not let us pass them..hehe..

..please dont take him.hahha!!..

..my dad & mom with my uncle and cousin..

..my family in law..

..they were late because of the delayed flight.poor them..

And the most buddy that i would like to thank is My brother, Hasnolhayat for giving his best in helping me during my wedding.. I owe you my lovely brother. Will help you when your times come.... :)

My 1st Post: The Day i became Mrs.Rizzam

Hi.. people know me as iN. This is my first post to my First Blog. Yeahhhhh!!! Im married to Mr.Rizzam after 3 years of relationship. Our solemnization was on 10/12/10..its been 4 months of marriage life and i feel grateful because i have him as my husband..... The theme for my solemnization is Silver-White. Let see the picture :)

asking the groom if everythings ok :)

..The make up..

..someone is making a joke that makes me forgot all the nervousness..

My make-up artist

..when 'tok kadi' asked the groom about the 'hantaran'..

my father said, "Aku nikahkan dikau dgn anakku...."

..its so sad as i know that im not mom&dad little girl anymore..

..but im happy because my dream come true..

..when i put the ring on his finger..

..the kiss on my forehead..

..you belong with me..

..my sweet mom & macho dad..

..my super cool & sporting in-law during 'Malam Berinai'..

..my lovely frenz (teefa, linda & siti)..

..my hot babe Marina @ erin..

..we jump so high because we are happy..

..photo session..

..when im tried to seduce him hahahah..

That's the story during the solemnization and 'malam berinai'. I will post my wedding reception photo on the next post... Chill yaaa!!!!